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Over the years, the number of long-distance friendships I have continues to grow. These
friendships have often formed because of major life changes, either in my life or in the lives of
my friends. Whether it’s moving to college, pursuing a dream job, getting married, etc., these
transitions create distance between us. As graduation in May is fast approaching, the number
of long-distance friendships I have will grow drastically. It’s bittersweet, but these friendships
have taught me to appreciate the little things more every day.
The little things allow these friendships to continue no matter the distance that may
separate us. A simple text can remind these friends that you still care and love them. Receiving
a short and simple text from one of my friends who lives far away will always warm my heart as
it’s a reminder that we are still connected no matter the distance between us. The distance
doesn’t weaken the love you have for these people, it only alters the way you express it.
So, with graduation fast approaching and major moves occurring for many of my
classmates, remember to appreciate the little things and to do the small gestures. Send those
simple texts, pictures, memes, postcards, etc. These small gestures are what will allow your
friendships to thrive and not be hindered by the miles between you. The little things will allow
you to stay connected with the people who have transformed you into the amazing person you
are today. Send the texts, share the memories, and make the effort to continue the friendships
no matter the miles between you.
Allie Rose Phillips is a McConnell Scholar in the class of 2025. She is studying political science.