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| Bridget Kim ('19) |
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| McConnell Scholars in London (May 2018). |
That is why when something discombobulating happens at the Rose and Crown and fifteen people of varying strengths and qualities band together to form a phalanx of friendship to protect you, you feel the value of the dramatic highs and lows of travelling. That is why when you are two hours late to an open mic with new friends and miss it entirely, you feel the growth of learning from lessons of regret and releasing the loss of potential forevers. There was a moment that Dr. Gregg, one of the kindest and bravest men I know, and I shared after a group outing to a candlelit classical concert held in a church in Trafalgar Square. He related to me, at a pivotal moment, a moment suspended in time, the beautiful burn before the ice, a quote by Edmund Burke. He said, "The theater is a better school of moral sentiments than churches where the feelings of humanity are thus outraged." After two weeks of seeing two thousand old BFCs, all beautiful in their own right, I agree and I don't. I felt human sitting in the audience of those theatres where life was happening, and I felt gloriously human in the stillness of those vast historical churches. I found solace in the mania of play plotlines, and I found refuge in the peace of troubles long simmered. I leave part of my heart in the Oxford Society 2018. I leave you with something I read on a stone monument in St. Bart's Church by Edward Cooke in 1952:
Unloose your briny floods,
What can you keep
To eyes from tears
& see the marble weep
Burst out for shame:
Or if you find no vent
For tears, yet stay,
and see the stones relent.
I wish I could yet stay. There will be plenty more drama to come, but never again of the same texture and taste or with the same friends. I am so lucky to have seen the dramatics of traveling once, and I long for the day I can see it once more. Luckily, for the members of my scholar class, Shanghai, Xi'an, and Beijing await. China, here we come!
Bridget Kim, of Morehead, Ky., is a third-year student at the University of Louisville where she studies political science and theater arts.

