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Give Them Their Meaning

By Piper Coleman

    “I do solemnly swear that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against

all enemies, foreign and domestic...” 

— United States Armed Forces Oath of Enlistment

    This past summer while I was living in Virginia, my coworkers and I stumbled upon the

Armed Forces Memorial in Norfolk. Located on the Elizabeth River, adjacent to a naval station

where U.S. soldiers have been shipped abroad for decades, the Memorial features twenty letters

from veterans who died during their service. Although they ranged in date from the

Revolutionary War to the Gulf War, the letters expressed many of the same sentiments: The men

wanted to see their loved ones again, they hoped peace efforts would come to fruition, and they

wanted to be spared death. Reading the letters, an eerie sorrowness came over me; I knew that I

was reading a soldier’s last plea to humanity, last confession of love, or last reaffirmation of

perseverance before they sacrificed their life.

    Whether or not war is necessary or justified is a different question entirely, and it is not

one I will address in this blog. However, the fact that war occurs remains true. It also remains

true that people will continue to serve in wars for many years to come. If we continue to ship

service members off to war, we should contemplate the gravity of the request we are making: we

are asking these fellow citizens to potentially witness or commit atrocities, to die, or to return

home and grapple with moral contradictions.

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    The Memorial gates bear an engraving that reads “We leave you our deaths. Give them

their meaning.” This demand was as striking as the letters themselves. Accustomed to thanking

veterans for their service or observing a moment of silence for the ones who gave their lives, I

had never before felt that there was a reciprocal relationship between civilians and service

members. We all hear the platitudes on Veterans Day or Memorial Day: Thank you to all the

service members who have fought to protect our country. Of course, they did protect our country,

but I think that is a reductive way to phrase their sacrifice. Each service member takes an oath to

defend the U.S. Constitution. Above all else—their loved ones, their homes, their little corner of

the country—they vow to defend American laws and ideals. They are not merely protecting the

country, but they are preserving it so that those of us still here can fulfill the American dream,

according to the democratic process.

    I considered if we are giving their deaths (and every case of PTSD, all the grief, and each

instance of veteran suicide) meaning at this particular moment. When the current Administration

installs an unelected billionaire to direct governmental activities, fires more than fifteen

inspectors general, freezes foreign aid, and purges 5,400 Pentagon employees along with the

Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, the chief of the Navy, the vice chief of the Air Force, and

the top JAG lawyers, I sense something unconstitutional afoot. I’m not convinced that we are

upholding our end of the bargain. It seems that we have lost the civilian sense of duty—to remain

educated rather than entertained, to serve our neighbors, to vote, and to hold our representatives

accountable. We must prepare to do the work domestically, and when we thank a service member

for their service, we should also vow that we will do everything in our civilian power to make

their sacrifices worth it.

    “And those politicians who speak of war as an instrument of power, those who wage war but do

not know its reality, those powerful statesmen ... those who treat war as part of the great game of

nations, are as amoral as the religious stooges who assist them. And when the wars are over,

what they have to say to us in their thick memoirs is also fatuous and empty”

The Greatest Evil Is War by Chris Hedges

Piper Coleman is a McConnell School in the class of 2025. She is studying geography, political science, and philosophy.